Don’t wait to know everything before you do something

Don’t wait to know everything before you do something

I don’t know what it is you’d really love to create or achieve or change or pursue. However I do know this – waiting until you have everything figured out before you start out is a recipe for missed opportunity, frustration, resentment and regret.

Stand for something… or fall for anything.

Stand for something… or fall for anything.

I hope you will also take some time out to think about the message you want your life to share… does it reflect compassion for the suffering of others? Does it honor your talents and dreams and the blessings? Does it leave people better off for having known you? Does it challenge you to learn more, to do more, to grow more and to become more?

Do you care too much about what others think?

Do you care too much about what others think?

We all like to be liked. Nothing wrong with that. But too often we let what OTHERS think matter more than what WE think. Next time you find yourself at a moment of indecision, ask yourself what you would do if you had didn’t need to impress or be liked; if you were being really courageous.

Sheryl Sandberg, Beyonce, We Need To Embrace Bossy, Not Ban Bossy

Sheryl Sandberg, Beyonce, We Need To Embrace Bossy, Not Ban Bossy

Like Sandberg, since as young as I can remember I was called bossy. As a big sister of seven, I was forever telling (i.e. assertively coaching) my siblings what they needed to do, and not letting them off the hook until they did it (i.e. managing accountability.) Then as one of only fifteen students in a small rural Australian school, my assertive streak only grew stronger. Those who knew me could count on me to take charge. When they called me bossy, it felt more like a compliment than criticism.

Be Bold & Brave: The Call to Courage on International Women’s Day

Be Bold & Brave: The Call to Courage on International Women’s Day

To create a more equitable world, a more just world and a more peaceful world, everyone of us has to do our individual part. We can't rely on policy makers, politicians and corporate power brokers. We have to do our own bit, in our own way, to challenge and change that which we know could be better. And doing that will always call for courage.

Mental Illness: Extend compassion, not judgement

I remember four years ago today trying to call Peter on his 31st birthday. I was at home in Virginia. He was in a psychiatric hospital in Sydney half a world away. I remember when I finally got through to his ward and a fellow inpatient got him to come to the phone saying Happy Birthday Pete. As the words came out of my mouth I knew there was very little happy about it. This wasn’t the first birthday Peter had spent in a psychiatric ward. He woke up on his 21st birthday in a psych hospital ten years earlier.

“Love Is As Love Does”: Spread a little this Valentines!

“Love Is As Love Does”: Spread a little this Valentines!

Real love is a verb. Poetic words of love are nice, but real love is about doing things that make others feel loved - it takes courage, it takes compassion, it requires generosity. So as you go about your day today, I invite you to think about what you could do differently to make those you interact with feel more valued, more appreciated, more acknowledged… more loved in some way, large or small.

Are you charting a course that inspires you? If not, why not? If not now, then when?

Are you charting a course that inspires you? If not, why not? If not now, then when?

If you don't know where you want to go, then it's highly likely you will end up in a place you don't want to be. Of course you can't change your current circumstances overnight, but you can change your direction. It starts by deciding what you want, and just as importantly, what you don't want.

Are you stuck in default mode? Why flexibility is so crucial in the game of life

Are you stuck in default mode? Why flexibility is so crucial in the game of life

We all have our default style and approach of getting things done, solving problems and adapting to new circumstances. Responding with flexibility and agility in our rapidly changing world requires an ongoing trade-off between your naturally preferred way of responding to a challenge and a way that isn’t as easy or comfortable. For every strength you possess, there’s an opposite strength or trait that balances it out. But if you always approach your problems and challenges in the same default way, you won’t always approach them in the best way." Sometimes you will respond to them outright ineffectively. Agility and flexibility is the name of the game.

Wishing You A Wholehearted New Year!

Wishing You A Wholehearted New Year!

Of course I also want you to have a happy year ahead also. But we human beings live along a spectrum of emotions as diverse as all the shades in a rainbow. To wish only to feel ‘happy’ would be to deprive us of the full human experience, living only on a very superficial level, and unable to infuse the tapestry of our lives with the contrasts of human experience that make it truly meaningful. - See more at: http://margiewarrell.com/?p=7812&preview=true#sthash.4yG4VKvn.dpuf