As you read the title of this post perhaps you were thinking “umm… I don’t know… could I?”. If that was the case for you then I want you to begin by thinking about something in your life that is not how you would like it to be right now: a person who is annoying you, a situation which is causing you to feel overwhelmed or frustrated or unappreciated, something you would like but aren’t getting. It doesn’t have to be something huge… but it might be! The only criterion is that it’s something that isn’t the way you would ideally like it to be.
Now think about what specifically it is in regard to this “issue” that you would need to be different for you to feel better about it; or put another way, for there to be no issue at all.
Finally, ask yourself whether or not you have made a clear request to have this need fulfilled?
My experience is that often [Read more…]