Done is better than perfect. Just get on with it!
Nothing stifles our success more than the pressure we put on ourselves to do things perfectly, and to avoid the possibility of falling short in the attempt.
I’ve spent the last few months immersed in words while writing my next book Train the Brave (due out next April.) I’ve put a lot of myself into this book and hope that its 50 short focused chapters will help many people to live more bravely.
One of my challenges writing books (and even blogs!) has been that I’m never fully satisfied with them when get published. This one was no exception! I’m sure that if my editor at Wiley gave it back to me again this week I could find another few hundred small tweaks to make to polish it further. Books are like that. Words are like that. Life is like that. It’s always easy to see how it could be better – more perfect- and not so easy to feel content with how it is.
One of the chapters in this book is called Forget perfect. Good enough is good enough. Needless to say, it’s advice I have to live myself… daily. The truth is that if I’d waited until I had the literary brilliance of the writers whose books like my shelves I would never write a darn thing. Likewise if I kept editing this last book until I felt it was ‘perfect’, you would never get to read it.
We live in a culture that celebrates perfectionism even as it censures it.
We live in a culture that celebrates perfectionism even as it censures it. Every time we pick up a magazine or turn on the TV, we feel pressure to have perfect homes, perfect bodies, perfect children, perfect lives. And too often we want to feel like we have to do something perfectly before we attempt to do it at all. Nothing stifles our success more than the pressure we put on ourselves to do things perfectly, and to avoid the possibility of falling short in the attempt.
The fact is that right now, you are more than “good enough” to get started toward accomplishing new goals, and pursuing new dreams. It begins with having the courage to believe in yourself, in the value you bring and the dreams you hold. Yes, you are smart enough, strong enough, worthy enough, capable enough, and ready enough right now…just as you are….as imperfect as you are!
If you wait for perfect conditions, you will never get anything done. ~Ecclesiastes 11:4
Consider how many adults who never learned to swim as children refuse to learn as adults. Their fear of having to go through the same learning curve of every child keeps them from even getting into the water. Don’t fall into that same trap when it comes to doing something that would enrich your life and expand your future. Rather trust yourself that you have everything it takes to do what you really want to do. What you don’t yet know you’ll learn. And what you can’t do well won’t really matter. Remember, done is better than perfect! It’s a mantra that will serve you well.
If you know someone who is struggling under the weight of perfectionism, please foreword this along. Sometimes we need someone to remind us that we’re focusing on the wrong stuff. As Brene Brown wrote, “Understanding the difference between healthy striving and perfectionism is critical to laying down the shield and picking up your life.”
Life’s perfection exists in it’s imperfection. If life were perfect, it wouldn’t be.
So let me ask you, what you do if you gave yourself permission not to have to do it brilliantly? Don’t let your fear of not being good enough, keep you from realising just how capable, worthy and talented you truly are. After all, life’s perfection exists in it’s imperfection. If life were perfect, it wouldn’t be. So forget perfection, just get on with it!
As I say in this video below, left unchecked, your fear can keep you from living the life you want. Don’t give it that power!